Now he has lost his sex attraction for me. I don't even leave the house unless I'm with him. She���ll still see me when we meet in groups and is very pleasant, but it���s as if the connection we had has been lost somehow, although I don���t feel it���s a natural evolution of our friendship. ? Dont ask him if he is losing interest though... they get defensive if you start it out like that. Well, it has been almost a month...and nothing. Is the fear of your partner losing A change in your girlfriend���s behavior may signal a shift in her level of commitment to your relationship. Sounds like you are the only one making them. talk to him. Does she say " OH uhh i got to do something, Bye" and walks away after you ask her to go hang out with you like she normally does? You shouldn't give up or give in to the feelings of loss or confusion. for the most part, it seems when someone falls in love with someone, with time the "looks" issue just isn't there, unless the person has really let themselves go, so i doubt this is an issue. They're usually free. Get your answers by asking now. If all else fails, hire a babysitter for an evening and greet him at the door when he comes home from work in some lingerie or naked is always good and just attack him! interesting statement.... the controling and picking fights may have to do with a new lifestyle, a wife who no longer places him but the child first, (as it has to be), his new role, new financial burdens, maybe lack of sleep.. as far as the porn.......he's a guy...guys like naked women...right or wrong i don't believe this is abnormal behavior or behavior that you can derive much from. Meih. NO « » Log in or sign up. 10 answers / Last post: 2/11/2016 at 6:55 AM. However! Do you feel that your partner has been a little off lately? He probably welcomes death. He is totally against gays. As a couple, we seem to have hit a wall. I don't think he has lost interest, he might just be tired! "jealous of you"? He doesn���t talk about the future together. He goes into work at 4 AM in the morning and doesn't get home until 4:30 PM. We use to have a pretty active sex life. He definitely hasn't lost interest....he's gained it!!! But still sometimes, it does. Everyone argues sometimes too. 11 Signs Your Husband has Lost Interest in You. He sometimes picks fights for no reason, but then he will apologize right after and if I threaten to leave then he will beg me to stay. I checked his internet history and have seen that he is looking up naked pictures of all of these women all of the time and will make up excuses to leave me and his daughter to look at them. We have been intimate twice in the last two years. If you have been married for years, there may come a time where you worry if your husband has the same or increased kind of love he had for you when you met back in the day. 1. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. Anonymous. Yes. My feelings and words may be confused. I'm serious. Thanks. I thought that maybe he loved me for me too, but now I am doubting it. We have a 2 year old daughter. Share any advice that may help. Why do people let their wife or husband kick them out of their own house? My best friend seems to have lost interest in me in recent times. Still have questions? Good luck! How do I tell my husband I don't want to work it out anymore after his affair ? Has he lost interest? Researchers studying relationship breakups found that imbalances in power in the relationship , for example, where one partner controls all of the activities, are connected to relationship conflict, unhappiness, psychological distress, and breakup.